True me.. Tap-1040..

Throughout the years I have learned three major things:

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Pay attention. Inconsistent people use WORDS to cover up the truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do.
No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it.
No matter how many times you’ve played it in your head.
It never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1020..

4 Signs you’re MANIPULATIVE without realizing it:

1. Jealousy drives you to do risky things.

You resort to passive-aggressive tactics.
For example, you notice some friends who are not with you.

• You are offended and invite another friend to go out with you.
• You take a ton of pictures and post them on social media for all to see.
• When you feel like you’re losing control of a situation, you create another one that you can control.

Consider picking up a new hobby.
Accept that not everything other people do is related to you.

2. You’re kind of a know-it-all.

• You have the feeling that people should listen to you since you’re the one who knows the most.
• People around you may feel as though they are suffocating due to your actions.
• You may have a persistent desire to put yourself first, which may cause others to perceive you as selfish.

3. You pour attention on someone, then withdraw it if they do something wrong.

• You avoid people after an argument to prove a point.
• The point is that you don’t need them, and if they want to make up, they should go to you first.
• You feel the need to be in control.
• It’s important to remember that no one is perfect, including you.

4. You are adamant about getting your way.

• You are being persuasive.
• In some cases, you may have to go to great lengths to obtain your desired outcome.
• Assume you want candy for everyone, but others wish to have chocolate. So, what do you do? You get rid of all the chocolate, so they don’t have a choice.
• If you ever catch yourself doing these things, stop, take a deep breath, and take a step back.

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Tru2Day1095

You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.
True power is sitting back and observing things with logic.
True power is restraint.
If words control you that means everyone else can control you.
Breathe and allow things to pass.

True me.. Tap-983..

7 TYPES OF NEGATIVITY TO KILL:

1. PERFECTIONISM.
Trying to achieve something that’s literally unattainable will only result in you feeling “less than”.

2. JUDGEMENT OVER YOURSELF AND OTHERS.
When you are judgemental, you are only focusing on the negative qualities in yourself and others.

3. SELF-DOUBT.
Self-doubt is a weed that will take over your life if you don’t kill it at the root.

4. ASSUMING THE WORST WILL HAPPEN.
If you never think things will be better, they won’t be. This removes hope.

5. WORRY.
Worrying changes nothing except your health and mental state.

6. COMPLAINING.
When you focus on the negative things, you are really setting yourself up for never being content or happy.

7. TRYING TO CONTROL EVERYTHING.
You can’t control everything and when you try and inevitably fail, you will only blame yourself.

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True me.. Tap-981..

We always have choices in life.
We make our opportunities, and we must find it in ourselves to achieve our destiny.
We never really know what we can do or achieve unless we try.
Stop leaving something important up to chance.
Take control of it, and create the outcome you want.

It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.
-William Shakespeare.

(This music video got nothing to do with the post above. One of my favourite songs from the movie POPSTAR. If you watched the song & searching for the answer of where OSAMA BIN LADEN was living when he was killed? He was killed in Abbottabad, where he was living next to a Pakistani military headquarter for almost a year. Either ways this song is hella quirky & uncensored. Watch it with headphones.)

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Tru2Day1078

You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.
True power is sitting back and observing things with logic.
True power is restraint.
If words control you that means everyone else can control you.
Breathe and allow things to pass.

True me.. Tap-973..

There will be times when we feel knocked down at every turn.
Grief, depression, and so much more.
It’s important to preserve a sense of humor.
You have to remember to laugh at these things or they’ll control you.
Laughter will help you see the light in the darkest of times.
It’s more powerful than you’ll ever know.
Even at your lowest points, keep your sense of humor and use it.

Man, when you lose your laugh, you lose your footing.
– KEN KESEY.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I haven’t said anything on this Ukraine-Russia war situation till now. Other countries must stay away from joining this war because there’s a huge risk of further escalation.)

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Tru2Day1068

BE YOU FEARLESSLY.

Get up.
Get a routine.
Get outside when you can.
Get moving.
Get focused on the day in front of you.
(Not the month or year.)
Don’t live inside hypothetical catastrophes.
Focus on what you can control, even if it is your breathing.
Don’t beat yourself up for not baking banana bread.

True me.. Tap-920..

While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.

You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.

You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.

You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.

Make the decision that come what may come, this new year is going to be good and beautiful and something magical, not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.

ONLY YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR PERSPECTIVE.
(Not my words.)

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