The ATTITUDE of “that’s just how I am, take it or leave it” is still a sign of immaturity. As an adult, it’s your responsibility to figure out which of your traits are toxic and are negatively impactful towards other people and the ones you love, and to eventually learn how to fix them. At some point, we all gotta start making ourselves better individuals.
If you truly believe you don’t have to change anything about yourself, even at the very least the worst in you, and that people will just have to deal with it, then sorry, you’re still a child & your attitude is a childish nonsense.
Successful People Also Have: • Mental health issues. • Bad habits. • Gaps in their knowledge. • Moments of self-doubt. • Procrastination issues. • Insecurities, imperfect routines.
But they also know its NORMAL. And they deal with it SUCCESSFULLY. That’s the DIFFERENCE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Before few days Luna collapsed. Now it’s the time for Tether. It’s just a matter of time when entire hyped up crypto bullshit will fall like it should. We live in a world where fools who can’t count & subtract numbers talk about investments, and there’s also a group of dumbfucks who follow them. I am optimistic about some kind of a regulated digital dollar or pound built on block-chain technology replaces everything one day.)
People who are critical. People who reject you. People who are inconsistent. People who are abusive. People who retaliate. People who downplay your achievements. People who secretly want your life. People who refuse to improve.
Stop wasting your time dealing with toxic, inconsistent, negative, energy-draining people. Some people are wired for negativity. They love retaliation, being argumentative, combative and abusive.
Let others talk about you or against you, doesn’t matter good or bad. Your job is to protect your peace. Keep walking towards a truthful consistent life.
People who juggle too much in their head don’t know they are juggling the same thing & confusing themselves. You can’t juggle egg & eggplant at the same time, you are juggling with boiled egg or scrambled egg. The egg is still the same.
Now while reading this, you are also thinking about your egg who is the same person with two sides. Be decisive whether to pick him/her without a second thought. Egg will remain the same, you need to learn how to switch ways while dealing with them.
Do you know why people try to control someone or behave controling?
Because, they can’t control their own shit and they are not in the right vibration to control their own emotions. That’s why they try to control you. They don’t like your happiness & appreciation you receive. They always try to stop you frequently with different approach. In short, you are dealing a wishy washy real dickhead.
Guard yourself first. Help them understand life has more to offer. When you know you are not going towards a right direction, it’s better to take help or consult friends/family/whom you believe. Life is about sharing goodness & happiness. People who plan dorky things need to find themselves at right place before they vibe right.
In a relationship if someone is not moving up with time; just move forward with your life towards your goals & success, with or without them. You need a better you tomorrow. If deserving & you both are meant to be together, the other person will step up to catch up.