I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms. I hope you truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul, what you deeply crave from life, and I hope you have the courage to chase that. I hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving of everything you desire, that you are capable and worthy of curating the kind of life for yourself that sparks something within you. You have a fire inside of you I hope you never let convenience, or comfort, or the easiness of standing still put it out. I hope you show the world what you can do with all of that passion inside of you. (Not my words.)
You resort to passive-aggressive tactics. For example, you notice some friends who are not with you.
• You are offended and invite another friend to go out with you. • You take a ton of pictures and post them on social media for all to see. • When you feel like you’re losing control of a situation, you create another one that you can control.
Consider picking up a new hobby. Accept that not everything other people do is related to you.
2. You’re kind of a know-it-all.
• You have the feeling that people should listen to you since you’re the one who knows the most. • People around you may feel as though they are suffocating due to your actions. • You may have a persistent desire to put yourself first, which may cause others to perceive you as selfish.
3. You pour attention on someone, then withdraw it if they do something wrong.
• You avoid people after an argument to prove a point. • The point is that you don’t need them, and if they want to make up, they should go to you first. • You feel the need to be in control. • It’s important to remember that no one is perfect, including you.
4. You are adamant about getting your way.
• You are being persuasive. • In some cases, you may have to go to great lengths to obtain your desired outcome. • Assume you want candy for everyone, but others wish to have chocolate. So, what do you do? You get rid of all the chocolate, so they don’t have a choice. • If you ever catch yourself doing these things, stop, take a deep breath, and take a step back.
Fears stop you from all things possible. Don’t let fear get in the way of anything, especially your dreams. Did you know that FEAR is actually an acronym that stands for False Evidence Appearing Real? In other words, your fears are not real because they’re not actually happening they’re based on things that haven’t happened yet and therefore don’t exist.
Replace a fear with a wish or a dream for your life and choose to focus on that instead.
Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears. -LES BROWN.
There comes a very important time in your life where you need to sit yourself down and ask; “If you’re really living your life! Are you content or are you happy? Are you seeing or living?”
You only have one shot at this. Travel great distances if that’s what you please. Or stay at home and build a beautiful garden is that’s where you see yourself happiest. If you aren’t happy, then change. Analyze your life and get rid of anything that doesn’t make you happy. One day when you’re eighty years old, you’re going to wish you did. You’re going to wish you lived differently and there’s no way to go back and change it. LIVE YOUR ALL DREAMS, GOALS, DESIRES WHILE BEING THE MOST AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I liked this Ted talk by Bill Gates. And this pandemic could be the last pandemic we ever experience. Watch it if you have 15 minutes.)
When it is time for something new, you will feel it. You will feel a desire to let go, to shed layers, to move, to re-create. You will know because there will be subtle shifts all around you. You will release the old because you are really clearing the path for what’s ahead. Trust this process. Know that life does not take from us anything unless there is something else awaiting its replacement. Understand & value the importance of subtle shifts.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I found it fun to watch, so it’s a fun to share. I didn’t know there’s a foster banana liquor. Now my travel diaries include one more place in 2022. I like trying such recipies even know i am not a big fan of alcohol.)
Take exquisite care of yourself. Sleep deeply. Stretch gently. Drink enough water. Drink herbs infused in water. Drink in the warmth of the sun. Try early morning yoga. Allow beauty to be a priority. Spirituality is beauty. Brush your hair with wooden comb. Massage your face. Moisturise with oils. Breathe. Meditate. Write down your desires, dreams & goals. Visualise. Sweat. Sweat in a gym, that’s better. Bathe. Take your time.
I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms. I hope you truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul, what you deeply crave from life, and I hope you have the courage to chase that. I hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving of everything you desire, that you are capable and worthy of curating the kind of life for yourself that sparks something within you. You have a fire inside of you I hope you never let convenience, or comfort, or the easiness of standing still put it out.
I hope you show the world what you can do with all of that passion. I hope you show the world what you can do with all of that heart. At the end of the day, I hope you find what you’re looking for out there. I HOPE YOUR LIFE INSPIRES YOU. (Not my words.)
Your life will pass one way or another. The events that will unfold are the events that will unfold. You will meet amazing people who you are meant to. You will find the opportunities you need. You will desire what you want. The choice is not what you experience, but how. How is everything. How is golden. How closes doors and it opens them. How creates something out of nothing.
It is not the years we live, but HOW we live them. It is not who we cross paths with, but how we love them & appreciate them. It is not what we are given or not, but how we take what’s in front of us and turn it into all we ever needed it to be. It is how we experience life, day in and day out, in the quietest moments and biggest ways. The HOW is the way.
You attract what you want and you create what you think about. Act like the person you want to become. Think like the person you want to become. Nothing changes in your life unless you make the decision and commitment to change it. Hold an image in your mind of how you wish to see yourself living. Visualize it every day and you will unconsciously start to do things that will move you towards all your dreams, goals, and desires. YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU BECOME.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am excited for PEACEMAKER. Watch the trailer till the end, only my university bitches know there’s an unconventional word in this trailer i use often. OK not often, a lot.)