True me.. Tap-1025..

Anger is such a powerful emotion, so much so that when we really experience it, it has the tendency to cloud our judgment and our ability to reason.
We have to accept our feelings but also know that when we don’t regulate our anger it has the ability to destroy our common sense.

Don’t let your anger get the best of you.
Think rationally and be careful of how your emotions affect others.
When anger rises, your conscience falls, so be aware of your self-righteousness and try to see it from all points of view.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1095

You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.
True power is sitting back and observing things with logic.
True power is restraint.
If words control you that means everyone else can control you.
Breathe and allow things to pass.

Tru2Day1078

You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.
True power is sitting back and observing things with logic.
True power is restraint.
If words control you that means everyone else can control you.
Breathe and allow things to pass.

True me.. Tap-971..

There were times in life when I let myself get completely consumed with jealousy for someone else’s life, their body, their wardrobe, their talent.
It’s a common emotion to experience.
They call it the green eyed monster for a reason.
It’s self-destructive and when it’s in the room, it consumes you.
Be strong and don’t focus on what other people have.

Release any jealousy you have for someone else’s life and allow yourself to feel deep gratitude that you are living your own life.
Don’t torment yourself with jealousy.
It’s a silly illusion that someone’s life is better than yours when the truth is that each one of us is on a different unique beautiful path.

Tap OUT..🤗

True me.. Tap-941..

I used to run and hide from my feelings especially when I felt something that was upsetting, painful, or uncomfortable.
But over time I’ve learned to accept all of my feelings.
I know that in order for me to work through them, I must first honor and embrace all emotions.
They are a part of me.
Therefore they are meaningful and valid.

Pick a feeling that you’re afraid or ashamed of.
Feeling fear, anger, or sadness is okay as long as you don’t let it define you.
Embrace your emotions and remind yourself how valuable they are.
Don’t invalidate your feelings. Honor them.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-925..

When we choose to focus on what we have we are instantly happier people.
Gratitude is said to be the emotion that is most connected with happiness.
Even the wealthiest person in the world can think of things they don’t have.
It’s not about accumulating more things; it’s about focusing on the joy and beauty in your life by focusing on what is great in your life.

Don’t decide happiness based on your material possessions, but on the love in your life today.

Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more.
If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.
-OPRAH WINFREY.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-914..

You have to be fearless about pursuing your dreams.
You have to be willing to leave your comfort zone to grow not only as a human being but to push your own boundaries.
I encourage anyone chasing dreams to be fearless;
go into emotional areas that aren’t always comfortable or comprehensible.
Do something out of your comfort zone today.
Sometimes the things that scare us help us grow.

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.
So throw off the bowlines.
Sail away from the safe harbor.
Catch the trade winds in your sails.
Explore. Dream. Discover.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..💪

Tru2Day985

Stay away from those who criticize, point fingers or put you down.
Stay away from those who try to tell you who you are, what you do wrong, or how you can or can’t feel.
They are choosing to be emotional bullies and walk the path of negativity.
Let them keep that while you take the high road.
Refuse to be abused, even when it’s with words.
Real people are good with their approach towards you consistently, period.

Sunday story time.. 02.

Of course it’s another story about TAP.

Story goes back to my highschool days. I used to suck at history & geography. But my grades with maths, physics, chemistry & language papers were amazing. I was a 85-90% scoring student. I was a good chess player, i have played state level game 9 times to be exact. Most of my school friends were dead serious about football, that game never excited me. I was not crazy about sports in school, but i was fond of playing basketball or volleyball with my street pals. Because such weird interests, i made some friends outside my school. Most of them were my seniors, nobody cared because of my height & build. I think i look like a beefcake since forever. On top of that I hit puberty little earlier. In my class, i was the only 13 year old with some moustache & beard.

It was summer vacation after my grade-8. Few of my new streetsmart friends suggested to watch “THE MATRIX RELOADED”, of course it’s an amazing movie, but watching the same thing 4 times in 2 weeks smelled like a dumb idea. So we went to a DVD movie rental store to browse any other movie we can watch. Suddenly it started raining. One of my wise friends wanted to rent a X-rated movie. Let me clear, it wasn’t a porno. I agree some scenes were bit too much for our teenage eager brain. One of my friend’s neighbour girl knocked my door that evening and told me that she saw me renting/watching that movie. My “good student” image was really important to me & being an extrovert asshole i was, i cracked a deal within 20-30 minutes. Deal was; she will not say anything about that movie to anyone & we need condoms before locking doors. I lost my cherry that evening. She was 4 years elder to me & she started acting way too much romantic within a week, which was hella confusing. I had to cut everything bluntly because i wanted to focus on my studies, my friends, my chess, my piano lessons, my playstation, my basketball power forward position, my swimming classes & my 16 miles ride to a nearby river.

I am in my late 20s building strong morals & a big bank account, so that i can buy all happiness i desire for myself & my family. My approach to life in general is; “REMAIN TRUTHFUL & CONSISTENT, YOU WILL SEE EVERY POSSIBLE SUCCESS COMING YOUR WAY”. That’s all i wanna see in my people. That day & today; whenever i say i like someone, my friends think i am talking about some latina’s fine ass. Never understood how to be romantic. Basically i never wanted someone so bad that i can imagine being in a relationship. I was into someone recently, let’s not name it a relationship. I came in touch with someone who walked the same journey as mine & she is living in my city since 2012, but i got to know her after 6-7 years. It’s amazing to see people who believe in same basic human values as yours. The sad part is; people & their predictable behaviour. Especially their inconsistency, that’s my biggest turn off moment. I have made some rules to lead a simple happy happening life & one rule says; Every liar is inconsistent & every inconsistent person is a liar. Whenever someone acts inconsistent, just cut that equation no matter it’s a friendship, relationship, fling or fuck-buddy. Once a person goes inconsistent, their next step is lying. That’s how every inconsistent person tries to justify their inconsistency.

Moral of the story is;
Never offer half baked emotions/attention/affection, first you have to be sure about yourself whether you are ready!! I am a strong believer of KARMA. I believe if i can do something wrong with someone, some other person can do the same thing with me.

Tap OUT..😘