Don’t be so hard on yourself for feeling lost, confused or like you haven’t achieved all that you wanted to achieve. Life would be pretty damn boring if you’d done it all already, if you had no more room to grow or things to learn. Be patient. You’ll eventually figure it all out and everything will make perfect sense. Every experience will get you to where you are supposed to be. Every win, every loss, every heartbreak and every mistake. Don’t be afraid to fuck up, and don’t expect success overnight. Get lost, get so damn lost and find yourself over and over again. Believe in yourself, forget about what others think. Don’t stop until you make yourself proud. LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Little bit of fun & sass is important in life. Watch this 5 minutes of legit fun. Adam W, i don’t have to say more.)
Keep looking. Not for a person, but for your passion, your love, your courage, your goals, your dreams, your happiness, yourself. Keep looking. Explore your life before you explore another. Know your worth, know yourself. Only then, you will know what you need over what you want. You need yourself to become your own. Key to your future happy life is in your hands.
Life keeps leading us on journeys we would never go on if it were up to us. Don’t be afraid. Have faith. Find the lessons. Life is fun, let it be.
Your impact on other people is bigger than you think. Someone still giggles when they think of that funny thing you said. Someone still smiles when they think of the compliment you gave them. Someone silently admires you. The advice you give has made a difference for people. The support and love you’ve offered others has made someone’s day. Your input and opinions have made someone think twice. You’re not insignificant and forgotten. Your existence makes a positive difference, whether you see it or not. You just have to remain truthful & consistent with the way you are. You are unique & beautiful. Be you.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. It’s talking about obesity problem in USA. 2 out of every 3 US citizens are either overweight or obese, 1 is obese. And last 1 left is in tiktok i guess.😂 I am not surprised actually. If you eat Egg Mcmuffin & french fries with starbucks coffee for breakfast, what else do you expect! People drive miles to buy crappy fastfood & gain weight, then they talk about pollution & body positivity. Sadly this trend is slowly spreading in UK & Europe, but i am also happy that so many of those american fastfood chains aren’t present here so far. I can talk about life in Cardiff & Berlin, very few people prefer to eat out often. Even if they want to, at least we have an option to choose a full monty english breakfast/doner kebab/vegan avocado toast & natty acai bowl with enough lean meat/eggs/mushroom/vegetables/nuts/oats/berries/fruits at an affordable price. No offence to anyone reading from USA. I have cousins & friends in Cali, i tease them about being fat or fab everyday.😜)
Be with someone who is invested in you. I don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny. I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you.
Someone who wants to read every word you write. Someone who wants to hear every note of your favorite song, and watch every scene of your favorite movie. Someone who wants to find every scar upon your body, and learn where each one came from. Someone who communicates with both head & heart. Someone who knows why you prefer black coffee & sourdough pizza. Someone who wants to know your favorite brand of toothpaste & shower gel, and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them.
There is a difference between attraction, interest & the word i mentioned INVEST. Find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are, and hold onto them.
Every relationship/equation/friendship in your life are an immense investment of consistent time & energy, never offer discounts on that.
Current generation in relationships be life “Boy playing playstation games & Girl busy with make-up/tiktok videos or instagram pics, i find it both stupid & funny”. Building wealth, property, knowledge, investments & a stable career are becoming flimsy with time among young crowd. When such people enter relationships with their 9-10 month validity boo-boo bullshit, it becomes HILARIOUS further.
I appreciate those who understand “Entering a relationship means becoming a better version of yourself to earn the spot of being with the person you desire”. First become the person you dream to be with.
If you are going through any sort of pain right now, I guarantee it will fade away. It may take a day, a week or a year but eventually it will be gone & something else will replace that place. But if you are going through something where you disappointed yourself and quitting that thought is haunting you, that pain is yours & only yours FOREVER.
Be real. Stay true to yourself & others. Life is simple & meant to be fun yet funny with all twists and turns you live through. Let it be that way.
If I want you in my life; I want to see you smile & happy, I want you to be nothing but TRUE, I want to give you a better tomorrow, I want to cuddle/kiss/love/bang/pamper/spoil/tease/tickle/squeeze/spank you, I want to see you by my side next morning everyday; all for pure selfish reasons which involves that togetherness we share which will always be majorly mine. And one major requirement: our relationship must help our bank account grow while we are growing up stronger together. My LOVE towards you will be my HAPPINESS. My LOVE will always remain selfish.
I want your full attention on me, easy for you because I am either a lusty funny 16 in boxer shorts or horny hothead hunk in boxer shorts whenever I am around familiar friendly faces. Don’t think about getting a glimpse of me outside home, you will fail & now a days even I fail to deal with some unnecessary attention. My age; Yes I am 16 since I am 16. I don’t want you to let me move my eyes off you, start working on that booty. You will figure out ways to be honest & happening around me, I am sure you don’t like bullshit because I don’t. Can’t change all these in me, not ready to negotiate. Haven’t found the one who can understand this.
Yeah airline upgrades are fascinating. But I love taking roadtrips into the wild & mountainous terrains. So if you can’t be a good pillion behind me on my bike, I will ditch you without a second thought. We can switch to something with 4wheels & a steering wheel if the distance is more than 7-800 kilometres, see I am generous+kind. If you feel that’s too much, you definitely need to know me more “I am a way bigger better rampant asshole“.
So why am I typing so many things related to LOVE now a days when I am that person who always ran away from it? Answer: whoever approaches me with right intentions & TRUTH in heart, this is your homework. Just making it easy for you, everything that’s BAD will work except LIES. I will just lay down & relax, all work is yours till you earn me. I am an amateur in this department. This word “LOVE” packs tons of respect, promise & childlike innocence in my eyes. Anyday you hear it from me in between those 3 words, please don’t lose it. I am not good with second chances. Yes I am seriously serious about all.
Yes I tried skating for a while, that’s the time I developed my love for VANS sneakers & hoodies. Actually my reason for skating was girls, I was seriously planning to woo a girl in the mix.
Yeah yeah early days of Tap, it didn’t work. I was a perfect asshole in those days & I was hella afraid whether that girl might start thinking more than what I wanted. The funniest part; school changed suddenly & I can’t even remember her name.😂