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How to be the main character of your life:

1. LIVE WITH PURPOSE:
The first step to some major main character energy is to live with purpose.
As the main character of your life, one of the worst possible things you can do is to let it pass you by.
The goals, desires, and accomplishments you hope to see happen are up to you to work towards.

2. SET BOUNDARIES:
While you’re learning to be main character in your life, you need to develop confidence and comfortability in setting boundaries with other people.
You know what you want, and what’s important to you and you need to be okay with removing things and relationships that don’t allow you to maintain those.

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Life is rarely ever predictable.
The truth is: we were never guaranteed that we would have the answers for everything or feel certainty in every situation.

That’s part of this journey’s adventure to get from where we are to where we want to be, we are required to trust, hope, and believe, and dare to blaze the trail even when the path in front of us looks near impossible.

The secret to life isn’t about knowing the future or having the perfect roadmap, but rather having faith for the future and the spirit of a pioneer.
IT’S OKAY NOT TO KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING TO TURN OUT.

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So I just found one of the most shocking and weirdest experiments and I have to share it with you.
Let me explain, in 1950 Dr. Curt Richer did a series of experiments using water buckets and rats.
The first experiment richer put the rats in the buckets and fill them half way with water, although rats are good swimmers they drowned after about 15 minutes.
In the second experiment richer repeated the same process and just when the rats were about to give up, the researchers took them out of the bucket, dry them off and let them rest for a few minutes.
They put them back in the bucket for the second round on the second try.

How long do you think the rats lasted?
Another 15 minutes or 10-5 minutes?
They lasted 60 hours because the rats believe that eventually someone would rescue them.
They use all their energy to keep swimming and avoid death.
If HOPE got rats to swim for 60 hours, imagine the affects your beliefs have on yourself.
Capacity is merely a state of mind.
And faith can actually move mountains.
HOPE is the key.

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Life is rarely ever predictable.
The truth is: we were never guaranteed that we would have the answers for everything or feel certainty in every situation.

That’s part of this journey’s adventure to get from where we are to where we want to be, we are required to trust, hope, and believe, and dare to blaze the trail even when the path in front of us looks near impossible.

The secret to life isn’t about knowing the future or having the perfect roadmap, but rather having faith for the future and the spirit of a pioneer.

IT’S OKAY NOT TO KNOW HOW THINGS ARE GOING TO TURN OUT.

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Become honest about personal struggles because the issues that we’ve dealt with are still taboo to talk about.
Self-harm, eating disorders, addiction, and mood disorders are things people aren’t always open about.
But it’s so important that someone starts talking about these issues, so that those who are struggling know that there is help out there.
It is your job to be a beacon of hope.

Stand up for those who can’t yet.
Give them support and strength.
Every life has a purpose.
Share your story and you may help someone find their own.

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I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms.
I hope you truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul, what you deeply crave from life, and I hope you have the courage to chase that.
I hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving of everything you desire, that you are capable and worthy of curating the kind of life for yourself that sparks something within you.
You have a fire inside of you I hope you never let convenience, or comfort, or the easiness of standing still put it out.

I hope you show the world what you can do with all of that passion.
I hope you show the world what you can do with all of that heart.
At the end of the day, I hope you find what you’re looking for out there.
I HOPE YOUR LIFE INSPIRES YOU.
(Not my words.)

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Keep going.
No matter how stuck you feel.
No matter how bad things are right now.
No matter how many days you’ve spent crying.
No matter how hopeless and depressed you feel.
No matter how many days you’ve spent wishing things were different.
I promise you won’t feel this way forever.
Keep going.

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We can’t be positive and optimistic every day of the year, it’s natural.
Sometimes our light is as bright as the sun, and sometimes it can be a little faint.
It’s important to surround yourself with friends who love unconditionally.
These are the people we look to when we feel that all hope is lost.
True friends light up our lives and rekindle the light within us when our hope is weakened.

Good friends help you find the important things you’ve lost;
Your smile,
Your hope,
Your courage.

If you’re having a bad day, surround yourself with friends who will let their light shine over you.
At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person.
Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.

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What is the point in being alive if you are not going to try for something?
If you are not going to at least attempt to make your time here remarkable?
Stop holding yourself back.
Tell the person that makes your stomach ache with hope that every part of your heart is tender for them, even if you think you aren’t ready.
Don’t just fantasize about your dream job, actively pursue it, and if that door is not open, knock it down.
Dreaming about a new business, go for it & own yourself.
Got a goal? GO, Fetch it.
Buy the plane ticket,
climb a mountain,
swim to shred after an intense workout session,
surf when it’s raining,
pet your canadian warmblood horse like a sweet puppy,
surprise your mates & university bitches with some butt naked snapchat streaks on a beach,
let your friends tease you “Aquaman minus SUPERPOWERS”,
jump the fence,
kiss an angel,
makeout in the middle of a concert,
full throttle that AMG to 150mph cruising through Autobahn while touring cross-country with your bestfriend.

Make sure that you don’t allow your fear to hold you back.
Instead, look your fear in the face and invite it to dinner, become it’s friend.
Live alongside it, let it make you feel alive.
Just choose impossibility.
Choose risk.
Choose making mistakes, new mistakes, and making memories, and making it up as you go.
Just choose to embrace whatever time you do have here, stay consistent on your life path, because life is finite, and fragile, and it vanishes too quickly.
Just make it worth it. Make it count. Life is fun, let it be.

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You have to chase the things that ignite you.
You have to do the things that bring you joy.
You have to surround yourself with the people who bring you back home to yourself, with the people who respect you and embrace you in ways that make you feel like you are worthy and accepted and celebrated and loved.
You have do the work to heal yourself,
even when it hurts especially when it hurts,
so that you do not continue to approach your life within the boundary of what is heavy within you.
You have to put yourself out there,
and you cannot worry about what other people think,
you cannot rob yourself of experience or happiness or inspiration because you are scared of how you will be perceived.
You have to be unapologetic in the way that you exist here.
You have to believe that your ideas, and your hope, and your being, deserve to take up space.
You have to believe that you have purpose.

Because our existence is finite.
And as hard as that is to understand,
as hard as that can be to connect with,
from time to time remind yourself that in the most human way we are all living on borrowed time.
We live as if we are promised the experiences and the potential we are chasing,
we live as if we have control over what happens to us.
But we don’t, and that is liberating,
because it is pressing there is urgency within the lesson.
It is meant to wake you up.
Life is meant to be lived. (Not my words).

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