The real glow up isn’t proving the people from your past wrong.
It is finally feeling so content and hopeful about your future that you stop thinking about them entirely.
When you want to change your life in order for it to look different, and only that, you are still orbiting around the opinions of people who didn’t love you, and didn’t have any intention to.
A real glow up is authentic.
It is lifting off all the cover-up bullshit and addressing the real problems.
It is healing.
It is changing, for good.
It is, for the first time, prioritizing your heart over someone else’s eyes.
The real glow up is realizing that you have nobody to prove wrong but yourself. (Not my words.)
A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP is not something you attract.
It’s something you create.
It takes intention, consistency, effort and sacrifice.
It takes deep understanding of who you are.
When we say “STRIVE TO BE SUCCESSFUL”, we must mention SUCCESS in what form!
In my eyes SUCCESS is an amazing form of accomplishment & it can be anything.
You are a good student, that’s a SUCCESS.
You are a good employee who loves & enjoys his/her job, that’s SUCCESS.
You are an entrepreneur or a businessman to a profitable venture, that’s a SUCCESS.
You lost 10kilo body weight in a month for shooting a music video, that’s SUCCESS.
You travelled 41 countries before turning 29, that’s SUCCESS.
You are truthful about what you are, that’s SUCCESS.
You never showed deceptive or inconsistent characteristics, that’s SUCCESS.
You are confident & consistent, that’s SUCCESS.
You never allowed bad times or bad people bring down your vibe, that’s SUCCESS.
You were patient with time to get what you wanted, that’s SUCCESS.
You baked the best sourdough pizza & sugarfree cheesecake for all your 17 friends, that’s a SUCCESS.
You know your bestfriend DEMI is a crybaby & despite that you had a long conversation about all your differences in opinion while grabbing her by waist, even that’s a SUCCESS.
SUCCESS is such a wildly overrated word that makes most people scared to even think about it.
We must use this word “SUCCESS” in our day to day life to feel more fulfilled in our way of living.
AS LONG AS YOU KEEP GOING,
YOU’LL KEEP GETTING BETTER.
AND AS YOU GET BETTER,
YOU GAIN MORE CONFIDENCE.
THAT ALONE IS SUCCESS. (Not my words.)
Consistent effort with clean intentions always leads to SUCCESS.
If we want to see success in our lives, we must intentionally work towards what we’re purposed to do.
We cannot get distracted by anything outside of our purpose or compromise our creativity, vision, or convictions because we believe that we’ll obtain more success or get more recognition or praise through our change in direction.
It doesn’t work like that because, success is connected to purpose- not trends of popularity.
One of the definitions of success is “the accomplishment of one’s goals”.
We have to keep OUR GOALS in front of us, not someone else’s.
So, stay on track.
Believe in yourself and your purpose.
Trust that as you stay faithful to what you know you ought to be doing, you will experience astronomical success that will leave you with a sense of fulfillment and will impact the world around you.
YOUR SUCCESS IS CONNECTED TO YOUR TO PURPOSE.
(Not my words.)
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it if you got little time. And Yes i know “Why Highly Successful Entrepreneurs Build Stupid Simple Businesses!!”.)
Celebrate your independence today and the fact that you can make your own decisions.
It’s impossible to please everybody around you but it is always possible to make the right choices to please yourself.
In the end that’s all you can worry about.
Tell yourself; “I choose my path”.
But also remember to remain in sync with your life.
It’s all about your INTENTIONS & CONSISTENCY.
Don’t make decisions based on other peoples influences or advice.
Listen without retaliating.
Think & do things without being indecisive.
You can’t live your life for other people.
You’ve got to do what’s right for you, even if it hurts some people you love.
The happiest people I know are evaluating and improving themselves.
The unhappy people are usually evaluating and judging others.
If you are intentional about practicing thankfulness every day, you will see the magic begin to take place in your life.
You are going to see doors open that you didn’t think were possible.
You are going to see opportunities come and find you that you didn’t know existed.
And, you’re going to see your influence expand like never before.
Your thankfulness will position you in just the right place to be the recipient of extravagant grace, faithfulness, and goodness.
On the good days and the lows days, stay thankful.
Everything in the created world is shifting in your favor.
YOUR BEST DAYS ARE STILL AHEAD OF YOU.
There are plenty of moments in our lives when we struggle with making decisions, whether they’re small or large.
Our heart can be telling us one thing, our head another, and our friends something entirely different.
It’s important to weigh all options, then do what your heart truly believes is right.
Don’t just do what your friends are telling you to do, you must make your own decisions based on your intuition.
Next time you have to make a decision, weigh all the options, especially those of the heart, while measuring the logical side in head.
Only do what your heart tells you to.