Three major lessons you must learn for an easy smooth sailing life;
1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not. Pay attention. Actions speak louder than words, inconsistent words mean nothing and such words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies.
2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control. That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you. And if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on. It’s as simple as that.
3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do, no matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought. (Not my words.)
You’ve got to ask yourself what you’re living for & who you’re living for. And if none of those answers begin with you then you’re living your life wrong, you’re living a lie. Everything you do should revolve around you. Every person, every place, ever moment should start and end with you. This is your life and you shouldn’t spend it on dull things, in people who don’t understand the type of love you carry within your bones. Because you only live once and it’s your job to make it count. So let every day be yours, own it, remain consistent in your walk of life and never apologize for being who you are.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. In case this entire generation falls behind our journey towards humanity & a healthy civilized society, this app called TIKTOK is the sole reason behind it which gave them taste of instant gratification & memory span of a goldfish.)
How rare the trust is these days, how small the case looks like a strong bond based on openness and honesty, how small the chance seems to be a bit of loyalty and commitment?!? Even smaller is the chance of a combination of the above, smaller and almost rare.
We all want it, in fact we all call it. We claim to be loyal, to be open, to be honest, but if we are all, how does distrust arise? The disappointment? The abuse of trust and the use of someone else?
Whether it’s love, friendship or family. We all want the same thing. We all want respect, trust, honesty, communication, openness and loyalty consistently. Be aware of your choices, your actions and consequences before you harm a relationship, a relationship that is self-reliant today. If you want them to be true to you, then stay true to yourself first. (Not my words).
Most people think i hate liars because i write about predicative patterns of a person who’s lying. Actually i love liars. The best thing about a liar is; his/her estimation of hiding something to avoid lying about it. And the catch is; “when you lie about something, your voice says you are lying because there’s too much inconsistency. And when you hide about something, your behaviour speaks about it. Again the same reason because there’s too much inconsistency”.
A liar is predictable either ways. I love it because I just want to applaud that effort behind creating so much nonsensical garbage in head. People lose their value & that can never be restored. Once that mojo is lost, it’s just gonna give bitter taste afterwards. Karma has the cure for everyone, you will get served exactly what you offer.
The one quality of a truly honest person i adore the most & that distinguishes them from rest random crowd: “They have a calm and consistent speaking voice”. One of the easiest telltale signs of lying is a loud voice. When you catch someone in a lie, they’ll often raise their voice in defense as a way to establish power.
Honest people rarely become defensive when they’re asked questions, even if those questions seem accusatory in nature. When an honest person replies, their tone of voice is calm and consistent since there is no possible way they’ll be found out. They have nothing to worry about. There is no reason to lie or make up a story. There’s nothing to hide. TRUTHFUL & CONSISTENT, that’s all it takes to be a GOOD HUMAN.
I hangout with the same set of friends since past 500 years if i am right. Let me answer the reason why so!?? I already know who true friends are, so never really felt the need to have new ones. I am very cautious while living my life independently unless someone is this compatible, and by this I mean, they think the same, express the same ideas and they have the same values. Reason behind all is a flimsy world where people come to life with ulterior agendas. I have always said that i hate two kinds of people; 1-People who lie, 2-Inconsistent people.
And my observation says every inconsistent person is a low-key liar. And there is no big or small lies, every lie is a lie. Back to point 1 again, people who lie are nothing but boring. That’s the reason i have a small group of friends that i cherish like life. Liars never understand; BEING BAD IS ACCEPTABLE IF YOU ARE REAL.
How many times you thought “I am not good enough or I don’t have enough to be happy”? Actually these two are the most common lie we tell ourselves & we need to stop.
I’m not good enough. No matter how positive or confident you are, this thought has undoubtedly crossed your mind at one point or another. This thought can invade any aspect of your life and it can lead you to believe that, you’re not good enough physically mentally or emotionally breaking down your self-worth. Believing that you’re not good enough or smart enough to do something often makes you not even want to try, because you don’t see the point in the inevitable failure. It will stop you from putting in the effort needed to reach your goals.
I don’t have enough yet to be happy. Every situation has a silver lining or a lesson that can be learned from it. Know some people are too busy worrying about the problem to ever see it. Being upset over something you don’t have or didn’t get, it’s only a waste of time and stops you from seeing what you do have. The happiest people aren’t necessarily the extremely fortunate of rich ones. It’s those who see the positivity and potential in what they already have and make the most of every opportunity that comes their way.
(This video of Donald Dump got nothing to do with the post above. Just wanted to share a tiny video of the most miserable human being on this planet who breathes lies.)