True me.. Tap-1117..

The ATTITUDE of “that’s just how I am, take it or leave it” is still a sign of immaturity.
As an adult, it’s your responsibility to figure out which of your traits are toxic and are negatively impactful towards other people and the ones you love, and to eventually learn how to fix them.
At some point, we all gotta start making ourselves better individuals.

If you truly believe you don’t have to change anything about yourself, even at the very least the worst in you, and that people will just have to deal with it, then sorry, you’re still a child & your attitude is a childish nonsense.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day939

PART OF BEING A MAN IS LEARNING TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR SUCCESSES AND FOR YOUR FAILURES.
YOU CAN’T GO BLAMING OTHERS OR BEING JEALOUS.
SEEING SOMEBODY ELSE’S SUCCESS AS YOUR FAILURE IS A CANCEROUS WAY TO LIVE.

-KEVIN BACON.

Tru2Day890

We don’t change the world by trying to change everyone.
We change the world by taking responsibility for our own thoughts, feelings, intentions and actions.
Change is contagious and it begins with each one of us, taking PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY.

True me.. Tap-787..

Your attitude is what determines your day.
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
The small things in life don’t need to be worried and stressed about so much.
The alarm can be fixed.
The tire can be replaced.
The coffee can be refilled.
The parking ticket can be paid.
The keys can be found.
The to-dos can get to-done.
You can get enough sleep.
You can get some food.
Maybe a snickers or ice cream to satisfy your sweet tooth.
Your life is great.
You just have to allow it to be.

People don’t make you angry, you allow the anger to dwell within you.
Circumstances don’t upset you, you allow yourself to get upset.
You choose to worry,
you choose to criticize,
you choose to blame,
and you choose to complain.
No one else decides this for you.
Choose the bright side & remember your HAPPINESS is your responsibility.
(Previously posted it way back, not my words).

Tap OUT..👍

True me.. Tap-780..

You can’t heal on someone else’s agenda,
by someone else’s standards,
in someone else’s timeline,
with someone else’s rulebook,
for someone else’s benefit,
under someone else’s expectations,
or by someone else’s urging.
Your healing is for you, by you, within you, about you, and through you.
Until you make healing for you instead of for others, healing will be out of reach.

Healing yourself will ask more of you,
more rest,
more self love,
more letting go,
more time for learning,
more space for transformation,
more honesty about how you feel,
more time developing good habits,
more courage to try new practices,
more time cultivating your inner peace,
more faith in yourself and the process.
HEALING DOESN’T MEAN THE DAMAGE NEVER EXISTED.
IT MEANS THE DAMAGE NO LONGER CONTROLS OUR LIVES.

Tap OUT..💪

True me.. Tap-755..

The attitude of “that’s just how I am, take it or leave it” is still a sign of immaturity.
As an adult, it’s your responsibility to figure out which of your traits are toxic and are negatively impactful towards other people and the ones you love,
and to eventually learn how to fix them.

At some point, we all gotta start making ourselves better individuals.
If you truly believe you don’t have to change anything about yourself, even at the very least the worst in you, and that people will just have to deal with it.
Then sorry, you’re still a child.

People need to learn that their actions do affect other people.
So be careful what you say and do, it’s not always just about you.
MATURITY DOESN’T MEAN AGE.
IT MEANS SENSITIVITY, MANNERS AND HOW YOU REACT.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-744..

No one knows what you need to do more than you do.
Cry when you need to. It’s relieving.
Laugh when you need to. It’s healing.
Sit alone when you need to. It’s necessary.
Surround yourself with strangers when you need to. It’s eye-opening.
Living by your needs is not easy. No one said it was.

But a fact that you should always remember is this:
“you are more worthy of being taken care of than anyone around you”.
And I don’t mean the superficial kind of care.
I mean the care that your soul needs.
Everyone around you is struggling somehow.
Everyone around you is trying to reach a goal, a destination, or a dream.
Just as you might not expose your worries to the world, no one else has to.

Remember that you are a work in progress.
You are not perfect.
You are not expected to be perfect.
Do not allow the fear of falling to stop you from jumping.
Do not allow the fear of responsibility to stop you from committing.
Do not allow the fear of exposure to stop you from shining.
FOLLOW WHAT YOU FEEL & FEED YOUR SOUL.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day824

Everything you do is based on the choices you make.
It’s not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument or your age that is to blame.
You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period.

Tru2Day816

Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws.

-Plato.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it for some lighthearted fun.)

True me.. Tap-685..

No one knows what you need to do more than you do.
Cry when you need to, It’s relieving.
Laugh when you need to, It’s healing.
Sit alone half an hour when you need to, It’s necessary.
Surround yourself with random friends when you need to, It’s eye-opening. Especially listening to someone carefully is a dose of nectar to our eager mind & heart. Living by your needs is not easy, no one said it was. But a fact that you should always remember is this: “You are more worthy of being taken care of than anyone around you. And I don’t mean the superficial kind of care. I mean the care that your soul needs”.

Everyone around you is struggling somehow. Everyone around you is trying to reach a goal, a destination, or a dream. Just as you might not expose your worries to the world, no one else has to. Remember that you are a work in progress. You are not perfect & you are not expected to be PERFECT.

Do not allow the fear of falling to stop you from jumping.
Do not allow the fear of responsibility to stop you from committing.
Do not allow the fear of exposure to stop you from shining.
(Not my words).

Tap OUT..🤗