8 Rules for a HAPPY HAPPENING LIFE:
1. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
2. What others think of you is none of your business.
3. Time heals almost everything, give it time.
4. Don’t compare your life to others and don’t judge them. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
5. Stop thinking too much, it’s alright not to know the answers. Answers will come to you when you least expect it.
6. No one is in charge of your happiness, except you.
7. Smile. You don’t own all the problems in the world.
8. Understand the difference between WANT & NEED. Follow what you feel.
We can’t be positive and optimistic every day of the year, it’s natural.
Sometimes our light is as bright as the sun, and sometimes it can be a little faint.
It’s important to surround yourself with friends who love unconditionally.
These are the people we look to when we feel that all hope is lost.
True friends light up our lives and rekindle the light within us when our hope is weakened.
Good friends help you find the important things you’ve lost;
If you’re having a bad day, surround yourself with friends who will let their light shine over you.
At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person.
Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.
It is so important to be thoughtful and considerate about what we do and how we treat others.
You can’t tiptoe around other people, but you also have to treat people with genuine kindness and respect.
When you act out of jealousy or negativity, you have to be prepared for the consequences of your actions.
Try to make few people smile everyday.
It’s actually a really fun game to play with a friend.
You never know when those people will smile back when you need it most.
All of our actions have consequences.
What we do will eventually come back to us, which is why it’s always best to act with kindness.
There are some things that must happen because they must.
Things you can’t avoid, like growing up, failure, grieving, happiness, etc.
But when it comes down to it, life is really about people.
It’s about who you meet and who you don’t.
Who forgets you and who remembers.
Who soothes your bruises & helps you heal.
Who you run after and who chases you down the line.
It’s about who’s there when you feel alone and who’s not.
Who you could talk to and who makes it hard for you to be yourself.
That’s what’s important, PEOPLE.
The way they look into your eyes right before they’re gone and the way they smile right back at you when you return back home.
People, it’s always about people.
The ones who love you, protect you and the ones who are there for you when you need them most.
I hope you never forget that.
PEOPLE are precious, choose wisely.
“You never need to be religious. Religious people believe bit too much in god, angel, heaven, hell & demons. And that’s low-key toxic in 2021. But you must believe in KARMA, you will get what you give. Karma is real. The nature of our world is based on EQUILIBRIUM. Good intentions & kind acts will always be rewarded, even GOD’s existence depends on that goodness. Karma & Kindness go hand in hand. This tiny bit of knowledge is SPIRITUAL, not religious. Become little spiritual with time“.
My takeaway from this is;
YOU AREN’T ALLOWED TO DISRESPECT PEOPLE.
YOU CANNOT TREAT PEOPLE LIKE GARBAGE AND WORSHIP GOD AT THE SAME TIME.
THAT’S BOTH DOUBLE STANDARDS & FAKEFUCKERY.
Be truthful & real.
If you have little time to make someone smile, do it.
Buy a loaf of bread for a homeless person or crack a dick joke to a sad friend, both will help you score some good Karma for your trip to heaven when you leave this planet.
If you think heaven is hoax, join hands with such people who will help you experience heaven on earth.
Kindness is the easiest step towards your spiritual journey.
Pay more attention to what stirs your heart.
Pay attention to the music that makes you want to cry, or dance, or jump right out of your skin.
Pay attention to what makes you happy truly happy,
the kind of happy that drips from your bones,
the kind of happy that gives you hope,
and makes you believe that you have a reason to be here.
Pay attention to the things that make you laugh, the things that make you smile.
Really focus on figuring out what compels you.
Really focus on discovering the aspects of the world that interest you and challenge you and make you want to learn and grow.
You have to pay attention,
To the things that make you believe in being alive.
To the people that support you and build you up and make you feel like you’re understood in a world that can sometimes feel like a haunted and hurtful place.
You have to pay attention to the life you want to create for yourself.
Because you are in charge of your own happiness.
You are in charge of who you become.
So, if something makes your soul feel like it is finally home, pay attention to it.
Whether it is a job, or an idea, or a goal, or a person, or a place, just follow what makes you feel alive.
Just make your life your own.
I am happy when I eat fresh fruit,
when I burst out laughing,
when I discover a new song,
when I finish a good book,
when I wake up and feel relaxed.
I’m glad to have friends, family, a home,
food when I’m hungry,
hot water when I shower.
I love being able to live and see the seasons change,
to have gifts at christmas and at my birthday,
to travel sometimes,
to have a good education and a great access to culture.
I’m flattered when people compliment me,
when people smile at me,
when people are polite to me.
There are so many things that make life so simple and easy and I will always think about them more than all the bad things that will happen to me.
I do not have time to be sad every day and ungrateful.
I have every reason in the world to be happy.
Take life day by day and be grateful for the little things.
Don’t get caught up in what you can’t control.
Focus on the positive.
So you want to be happy?
Then stop letting the smallest things ruin your whole entire day.
If you’re bored with your daily routine, do something unexpected.
Stop complaining about how alone you are when you’re surrounded by people who actually care about you.
Forget all the drama and let go of all the grudges you’ve been holding.
Stop wasting time lingering over all that you could have, should have and would have done.
Stop spending your days thinking of how much better you could do.
Stop longing for something that has been and always will be out of your reach.
Just live the days as they come, stay consistent with your approach.
Wake up every morning and smile at the wonderful day that awaits you.
Take a risk for once, calculated risks if it’s possible.
Let yourself be happy, because you deserve it.
Love someone exactly as they are, and they’ll transform into the best possible version of who they could be.
Love yourself exactly as you are, and you will do the same.
HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE.
CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY.
Date her who walks you till your car.
Date her who dares to steal your hoodie in front of your face.
Date her who wants to meet your parents, and is respectful towards them.
Date her who respects your siblings and family members.
Date her who’s kind to animals, its a reflection of how she’ll treat usual people.
Date her who makes you smile.
Date her who looks confident with or without makeup.
Date her who will listen to your complain or accomplishments.
Date her who doesn’t force you to do things you don’t want to.
Date her who will come hang out and cuddle just cause she can.
Date her who loves you through the good and the bad.
Date her who has seen you angry, happy, sad, and still feels for you.
Date her who has a hunger for SUCCESS & hunger for more beyond that.
Date her who actually utilises her time to the fullest, so that she can value your TIME.
Now you know you aren’t entertaining someone boring/sluggish.
Life can easily remain exciting happy happening even in a relationship if you are dealing with a stronger individual, stronger in finance & faith.