When we say “STRIVE TO BE SUCCESSFUL”, we must mention SUCCESS in what form!
In my eyes SUCCESS is an amazing form of accomplishment & it can be anything.
You are a good student, that’s a SUCCESS.
You are a good employee who loves & enjoys his/her job, that’s SUCCESS.
You are an entrepreneur or a businessman to a profitable venture, that’s a SUCCESS.
You lost 10kilo body weight in a month for shooting a music video, that’s SUCCESS.
You travelled 41 countries before turning 29, that’s SUCCESS.
You are truthful about what you are, that’s SUCCESS.
You never showed deceptive or inconsistent characteristics, that’s SUCCESS.
You are confident & consistent, that’s SUCCESS.
You never allowed bad times or bad people bring down your vibe, that’s SUCCESS.
You were patient with time to get what you wanted, that’s SUCCESS.
You baked the best sourdough pizza & sugarfree cheesecake for all your 17 friends, that’s a SUCCESS.
You know your bestfriend DEMI is a crybaby & despite that you had a long conversation about all your differences in opinion while grabbing her by waist, even that’s a SUCCESS.
SUCCESS is such a wildly overrated word that makes most people scared to even think about it.
We must use this word “SUCCESS” in our day to day life to feel more fulfilled in our way of living.
AS LONG AS YOU KEEP GOING,
YOU’LL KEEP GETTING BETTER.
AND AS YOU GET BETTER,
YOU GAIN MORE CONFIDENCE.
THAT ALONE IS SUCCESS. (Not my words.)
Consistent effort with clean intentions always leads to SUCCESS.
In religion, it’s called SPIRITS.
In science, it’s called ENERGY.
In the streets, it’s called VIBES.
All I’m saying is; TRUST IT.
Every morning, we get a chance to be different.
A chance to change.
A chance to be better.
Your past is your past.
Leave it there.
Get on with the future part.
Everyone wants to know how i tolerate my bestfriend DEMI since past 700 years of our friendship because her attitude is bit aggressive?
Let me answer & YES, it’s a long answer:
We were attending Lory’s birthday party near Cardiff bay. Party was over & some Justin Bieber song started playing. DEMI walked towards me & said; “Rudey, my pussy is drying up because of this shit song. Let’s leave & let’s drive to Tenby. We will talk about everything after reaching the beach.”
We both laughed & i still remember those exact words. And Yes, DEMI still calls me RUDEY because of my rude/angry/grumpy face.
We went through a bad fight before 5 months of that birthday party & i stopped talking to Demi. I decided i must allow her some time to think & respond logically instead of continuing that fight.
Only few friends know Tenby is my favourite coastal town in Britain & i prefer afternoon swimming when i think about relaxing.
DEMI made the right choice with place & timing.
We went swimming & she broke the ice while chilling at beach. We had a long open vivid conversation about everything which went loose.
We were able to come back stronger.
Years gone & our equation keeps getting better with time.
No matter how much i deny, she is the sassiest angel i ever came across. Bestfriends for some good reasons, and i can’t appreciate more.
27-Feb is the date we had a bad fight & we both stopped communication for 5 months. We both still talk about the stupid reason behind it & what we missed in those 5 months. We laugh at each other’s silent treatment. We tease each other about why that was just unnecessary.
We humans always take goodness for granted & our ego stops us from accepting our flaws.
We miss opportunities.
We disrespect good people.
Sometimes we hurt others without even knowing.
We make blunders easily.
But there are very few who accept & cross that path to acknowledge own mess.
Who says it’s easy!!
Very few are ready to talk about what’s wrong in them & why they are ready to change for better instead of farting from mouth “THAT’S HOW I AM”.
I admire those who strive to be a better human.
It’s easy to go vulnerable towards such people who come with clean intentions.
Every equation can be easy, soothing, happening & loving.
JUST CHOOSE THOSE WHO CHOOSE YOU.
Getting things done has no shortcuts.
Most people mess up something good, by looking for something better, just to end up with something worse.
Do you know the reason WHY!!
If you can’t be CONSISTENT, you are bound to fail here, there & everywhere.
Do not introduce a vibe you cannot maintain.
DON’T WORRY TOO MUCH ABOUT HOW YOU ARE GOING TO GET IT ALL DONE.
LEARN AS YOU GO,
AND IT WILL ALL COME TO YOU.
INTENTIONS CREATE ACTION,
ACTION CREATES MOMENTUM,
MOMENTUM BRINGS CONSISTENCY,
AND CONSISTENCY ENERGIZES YOU TO KEEP GOING.
THE ONLY WAY YOU SEE RESULTS IS IF YOU STAY CONSISTENT.
Honesty Is Everything.
Somebody is mad at you right now because you always picked peace over drama and distance over disrespect.
Choose people wisely.
Vibe with those who are consistent with their approach towards you.
(Not my words).
Consider becoming the type of energy that no matter where you go, or where you are, you always add value to the spaces and lives of those around you.
ALWAYS VIBE A TRUE YOU.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I deleted my Facebook account in 2011 & I have my own reasons to hate Facebook. See this tiny 3 minutes video, this guy makes whole lot sense.)
Some people think;
ADVENTURE is dangerous,
DISCIPLINE is brutal,
TRUTH is lethal,
LOVE is hard,
& LIFE isn’t moving.
These are all low-key narcissistic inconsistent personality traits which brings severe unhappiness to life.
And all you gotta do is; stay away from those who think like this.
ADVENTURE brings joy.
DISCIPLINE teaches you to be consistent.
TRUTH is core of basic human values.
LOVE is beautiful.
& LIFE is fun.
You have to carry this attitude forward in life.
Remain consistent with the way you are.
That helps you to be in sync with life.
Hangout with those who reflect & second your thoughts.
A happy person is not a person who’s always in a good situation, but rather a person who always has a good attitude in every situation.
VIBE WITH YOUR TRIBE.